Showing posts with label love. Show all posts
Showing posts with label love. Show all posts

Saturday, October 30, 2010

Enough

ENOUGH

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May your joys be as bright as the morning,
And your sorrows merely be shadows that fade,
In the sunlight of love.
May you have enough
happiness to keep you sweet.
Enough trials to keep you strong.
Enough sorrows to keep you human.
Enough hope to keep you happy.
Enough failure to keep you humble.
Enough success to keep you eager.
Enough friends to give you comfort.
Enough faith and courage in yourself to banish sadness.
Enough wealth to meet your needs.
And one thing more: enough
determination to make each day a more wonderful day
than the day before.

Wednesday, March 10, 2010

Buaya

Most of my readers think I am a buaya. According to commonly accepted Malay proverb, buaya is crocodile. But literally.

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Buaya is a guy who physically seems faithful to his partner. In the absence of any looking eyes from people known to the buaya, he will unleash the buaya characteristics. Bounce forward and crunch his prey ;- female prey, into his mouth.


Statistics shown that 92% of my reader think I am a buaya. A colleague of mine said I am legend in courting girls at supermarket.

But looking from my current situation, I guess the readers need to pass the buaya crown to other deserving guys.

Oh, nothing. Just out of boredom and stress. I am looking forward for the weekend at Kota Kinabalu.

p/s : 

Sunday, February 21, 2010

Engaged

Oh my elder brother is engaged with his long-time partner on 18th Feb 2010!

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I need to look for one as soon as possible!

I am an engineer,  a workaholic, a smoker, drink occasionally, not a playboy but people call me sweet-talker. Looking for a fair, petite girl from Chinese educated background.

Anyone?

HAHAHAHAHAHA!

Sunday, January 17, 2010

Wednesday, December 9, 2009

Should You Buy Her A Drink?

If I could put every process in a flowchart, I definitely would.

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I have put up a new dedicated label "FLOWCHART" below.


Sunday, October 25, 2009

Sunday, September 13, 2009

Red Beans



Hong Dou

I haven't yet experienced
The feeling of a wintry snowfall
We will tremble together
And better understand what gentleness is
I haven't yet held hands with you
To walk across this untamed desert
Perhaps from now on
We will learn to treasure eternal love

* Sometimes sometimes
I believe that everything has an end
In meeting and parting there are times
Where neither will last forever
But I sometimes
Would rather choose to love and not let go
Until we've seen all there is to see
Perhaps you'll spend eternity with me

I haven't turned the red beans
Into persistent scars
To be shared by us both
So we can better understand the pain of unrequited love
I haven't yet experienced
The warmth of a waking kiss
Perhaps around me
You have begun to pursue a lonely freedom

Sunday, August 23, 2009

Post-Convocation

This post is dedicated to our Taiko Mafia Samseng Lima Bintang Muar Shen Da Great.

Our Dear Taiko Shen

Our great taiko will start his job in KL soon, which means he will reside in KL and will have his dream KL life.

Working here, in KL's Golden Triangle ----->


Staying in condominium in Wangsa Maju ---->


Have a shaded car park for himself and only himself ---->


For his car equipped with GPS so that he won't get lost around KL ---->


And I hope he will get a girlfriend to complete his "ideal KL lifestyle".

Who could be the lucky girl?

Sunday, August 2, 2009

Weekend in KK

Yesterday.

Well, I had very good appetite for dinner last night with 5 beautiful girls surrounding me. Haha Ieja thanks for the treat!

Today.

Jalan-jalan at City Mall.


This is Pesta Perkahwinan Kota Kinabalu held in City Mall. They are doing showcase of A-Z marriage packages. I think it's all-in, including the venue of the banquet, photos and bla-10x.

The best part is that a middle-aged lady is looking at the bride, literally without blinking her eyes. I guess she's remisniscing her olden days, imagining herself in that pretty dress.

Martin complained that the models are too skinny, while I think they are just fine. The girls (READ : the model bride) kinda turn me on!

Saturday, March 14, 2009

LOOK AT THIS!

Hey asshole! Look at this photo. I say look at this photo! You bastard, son of a bitch. And you fucking whore!

It's your baby!! It's your baby, for the love of God..You can put your baby at any mosques, temples or churches. There are plenty of them around..

He said he loves you, and you said you love him..Any you two animals can't even love the fruit of your love?

Both of you, your daddy and mommy must be of the same species as you. You have no place, even in hell. And both of you, can't possibly be worth a shit.

Ptuihhh! Low level organism..Even pigs love their offsprings!

Monday, March 2, 2009

LEE WOH 1928-2009

Ah kong, be careful. Grandson can't take care of you anymore..

LEE WOH
1928 - 2009

Deeply missed and remembered by:

Grandsons:

  1. Lee Kee Wei (Final Year IMU, MBBS)
  2. Lee Kee Foo (Graduate UTP, BEng Civil)
  3. Lee Kee Choon (Second Year UKM, MD)
  4. Lee Kee Tat (First Year UKM, MD)
  5. Lee Kee Hon (Form 5 SMJK Choong Hua)

Thursday, January 15, 2009

"Infected" by HER

Life is totally upside down when you are single and jobless. I sleep at 6 in the morning after the rooster calls. Wake up at 10 AM to drive grandpa to Ipoh Specialist Hospital. Back just in time for lunch at 2 PM. A nap at 4PM will bring me towards the end of slumberland.

At 9, the most accurate biology clock in my body ticks. The stomach is crying for food.

Yesterday night was really weird. I've decided to eat "fried hor fun" at the very moment of waking up. Without a single word to my mom, I grabbed the keys and head towards the town.

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I turned off the keys and took off my helmet. The next thing I saw are the green patches of turf beside the perimeter drain. Green stimulates. I start to think about fresh coconut.

Actually, there are plenty of them hanging in their bunches behind the house. But WTF, plucking fresh coconut at night! (Ironically, it's easier to satisfy my craving for fags)

At 10, this is my own dinner. Mom is not responsible for this. She is in her slumberland by 10. Hahaha!

RM 3.50 for the fried hor fun while the coconut is fresh from the farm. By the way, that hawker is kinda famous in Bidor. Situated at Bidor Bus Station. Have a try if you happen to pass by.

Saturday, September 20, 2008

MSDS



Kinda old (repostaaa~), but still enough to draw a laughter from myself, especially after a long tiring day.

Wednesday, September 17, 2008

Five Factors



Your Five Factor Personality Profile



Extroversion:



You have high extroversion.

You are outgoing and engaging, with both strangers and friends.

You truly enjoy being with people and bring energy into any situation.

Enthusiastic and fun, you're the first to say "let's go!"



Conscientiousness:



You have high conscientiousness.

Intelligent and reliable, you tend to succeed in life.

Most things in your life are organized and planned well.

But you borderline on being a total perfectionist.



Agreeableness:



You have high agreeableness.

You are easy to get along with, and you value harmony highly.

Helpful and generous, you are willing to compromise with almost anyone.

You give people the benefit of the doubt and don't mind giving someone a second chance.



Neuroticism:



You have low neuroticism.

You are very emotionally stable and mentally together.

Only the greatest setbacks upset you, and you bounce back quickly.

Overall, you are typically calm and relaxed - making others feel secure.



Openness to experience:



Your openness to new experiences is high.

In life, you tend to be an early adopter of all new things and ideas.

You'll try almost anything interesting, and you're constantly pushing your own limits.

A great admirer of art and beauty, you can find the positive side of almost anything.

Wednesday, September 10, 2008

Insecurity

All along my Final Year Project works, I thought of SpringerLink as one journal database for engineering studies. Today, this morning I found one article related to psychology in SpringerLink. Never mind, don't bother about the article. It is just a pre-cursor to my post.

One fine night, somebody posed me a question regarding men's insecurities. It is just irrefutable that man and woman are different in many ways. Man act differently and man think differently. In the rest of my post, the term man and guy are being use interchangeably and practically both of them share the same meaning.

She further asked me to present a few situations where men will feel insecure with a "living example" for each situation. Allow me to put the situations in the language that we use in a daily basis. But a "living example"? Maybe no. Figure it out yourself! :P

Example of situation where men will feel insecure:
  1. The guy felt disrespected by the girl.
  2. The girl is smarter than the guy. (Performance in study or work, or both)
  3. The girl is richer than the guy. (Girl kept her savings in FD)
  4. The guy is fat and ugly compared to his peers, but is in relationship with an attractive girl. Same applies to a skinny guy with an attractive girl.
  5. The guy is trying hard to be romantic, but is not completely sure of how to be one.
  6. The guy is having low sex performance.
  7. A guy who is in a long term relationship with a girl, suddenly to find out that the girl is very close to another guy.
Although providing solutions is my type of job (I am a proud site-man), I am not Mr-Fix-It than can fix every situation. I myself do feel insecure sometimes. Read more about it here.

Photo : The writer with a Bangladeshi worker that has served him for the past 8 months during internship.


After all, I handle a 7.85 acre construction site better than I handle a single girl.




Arghhh I sucks in that~


Friday, August 22, 2008

Pain that Breathes



歌名 / Name:会呼吸的痛 / Hui Hu Xi de Tong / Pain that Breathes
歌手 / Artist:梁静茹 / Liang Jing Ru / Fish (Jasmine) Leong

zai dong jing tie ta di yi ci tiao wang
在东京铁塔 第一次眺望
at the Tokyo Tower, first time looking out

kan deng huo mo fang zhui luo de xing guang
看灯火模仿 坠落的星光
looking at the lights imitating the fallen star

wo zhong yu dao da dan que geng bei shang
我终於到达 但却更悲伤
I’ve finally arrived but sadder than before

yi ge ren wan cheng wo men de meng xiang
一个人完成 我们的梦想
I‘ve achieved our goal

ni zong shuo shi jian hai hen duo, ni ke yi deng wo
你总说 时间还很多 你可以等我
you’ve always said, there is still lots of time, you can wait for me

yi qian wo bu dong de, wei bi ming tian jiu you yi hou
以前我不懂得 未必明天 就有以后
before I didn’t understand, that there’s a tomorrow, doesn’t mean there’s a future

(***beginning of chorus)
xiang nian shi hui hu xi de tong ,ta huo zai wo shen shang suo you jiao luo
想念是会呼吸的痛 它活在我身上所有角落
missing you is the pain that breathes, it lives on every part of my body

heng ni ai de ge hui tong, kan ni de xin hui tong, lian cheng mo ye tong
哼你爱的歌会痛 看你的信会痛 连沉默也痛
humming the song you loved hurts, looking at your letters hurts, even the silence hurts


yi han shi hui hu xi de tong ,ta liu zai xie yi zhong lai hui gun dong
遗憾是会呼吸的痛 它流在血液中来回滚动
regret is the pain that breathes, it flows back and forth within my blood

hou hui bu tie xin hui tong, hen bu dong ni hui tong ,xiang jian bu neng jian zui tong
后悔不贴心会痛 恨不懂你会痛 想见不能见最痛
regretting not have cared enough hurts, hating not have understood you enough hurts, wanting to see you but can’t hurts the most


(***end of chorus)

mei kan ni lian shang zhang yang guo ai shang
没看你脸上 张扬过哀伤
didn’t see any sadness come across your face

na shi zhong duo me ji mo de jue jiang
那是种多么 寂寞的倔强
that is such a lonely stubbornness

ni chai le cheng qiang ,rang wo qu liu lang
你拆了城墙 让我去流浪
you’ve taken away the safety wall, and let me out on my own

zai yuan di deng ,wo ba zi ji kun bang
在原地等我 把自己捆绑
staying put, I’ve bundled myself up

ni mei shuo ni ye hui ran ruo ,xu yao yi lai wo
你没说 你也会软弱 需要依赖我
you didn’t say, that you may become weak too, needed my support

wo jiu zhuang bu xiao de, zi you yi dong zi wo de guo
我就装不晓得 自由移动 自我地过
I pretended that I didn’t know, moved freely, lived my own life

***chorus

wo fa shi bu zai shuo huang le ,duo ai ni jiu hui bao ni duo jin de
我发誓不再说谎了 多爱你就会抱你多紧的
I promise I won’t lie any more, how tight I hold you means how much I love you

wo de wei xiao dou jia le, ling hun xiang piao fu zhe ni zai jiu hao le
我的微笑都假了 灵魂像飘浮著 你在就好了
my smile is all fake now, my soul seems to be just floating, it’ll be okay if you are here

wo fa shi bu rang ni deng hou ,pei ni xiang zuo de wu lun shen me
我发誓不让你等候 陪你做想做的无论什么
I promise I won’t let you wait, I’ll be with you for whatever you want to do

wo yue lai yue xiang bei ke, pa xin bei ren chu peng ,ni hui lai na jiu hao le
我越来越像贝壳 怕心被人触碰 你回来那就好了
I’m more and more like a shell, afraid of being contacted by people, it’ll be okay if you are back

neng chong lai na jiu hao le
能重来那就好了
it’ll be okay if everything can just start over

Tuesday, July 15, 2008

Use Durex Save Dumex

Ohh that's surprising! How is that possible? Some participants in a popular local forum even allege that prostitutes boosted the statistics. Even funnier, a male participant calls the manufacturer of the condom a liar because he is a loser and he haven't been in a relationship, yet.

Be realistic. We don't live in Shangri-La. Face the truth. Shangri-La only exists in a popular novel, Lost Horizon, written by James Hilton in 1933. Our world is not earthly paradise. It is too utopian to think in a way that we can put Shangri-La and our world, juxtapositorily.

PRE-MARITAL SEX : WHERE IS THE BOUNDARY LINE

As being described by Paul Stenzel, any type of genital contact is considered sex. The boundary line is just clear. Yes. Oral sex is sex. Physical intercourse is sex. A man penetrating his female neighbor is sex. A secondary school kid thrusting his girlfriend inside some bushes is sex. "Medically speaking, they're very clear, because any type of genital contact can transmit disease."

In my opinion, there's no line to draw. It is not like playing "Territory" when we are still kids. Strictly speaking, having sex is just a matter of choice, whether you want to do it or not. Of course, many factors come into consideration before you do it. Unwanted pregnancies, mental distress, STD but I tell you, breaking the law is the last thing in mind of many teenager couples.

PREMARITAL SEX : AN EMOTIONAL TORTURE

Say you are in one of these situations:
  • You are playing it safe. You use a condom. Oh not because your partner insisted you to, but on your free will. However, you don't know that certain type of lubricant somehow weakens the bond between basic isoprene units that make up condoms. You played it hard and the condom bursted. You did not realize it until you got up from your bed for a hot bath. (Haha you are unlucky!)
  • You don't use condom because it deprives you of the sensation. You are pretty confident you can withdraw at the right moment. But you are too into your position that you blow up in her. (Pray hard you won't multiply!)
  • Both of you are lost somewhere in the steamy world of sex. The girl's dad shouted and knocked down the door. He punched and kicked your ass. (Haha you are lucky coz he did not bring along a parang!)
Imagine the extent of emotional distress and guilt you will feel right away. You won't know for sure whether your girlfriend is pregnant or not. You wait anxiously for your girlfriend's menses. You keep thinking what will happens if she really got pregnant. Family looked down upon, unwanted child, guilty feelings haunting you, Pak Haji come running for you, long life emotional effects and what not.

PREMARITAL SEX : WHAT RELIGIONS SAY

"And go not nigh to fornication; surely it is an indecency and an evil way." (Qur'an 17:32)

"Marriage should be honored by all, and the marriage bed kept pure, for God will judge the adulterer and all the sexually immoral." (Hebrews 13:4)

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Is sex recreation, or re-creation?


Tuesday, June 24, 2008

Printscreen

Call me ignorant, call me outdated. Hahahaha! Everyone would notice the McDonald's advertisement on television earlier than me. Tell you what, I only notice it yesterday night while watching some local Chinese drama on NTV7. It started with an "ah pek" bringing home some take-aways from McDonalds. He started to eat them while watching Euro2008 in the wee hours. Then her mum comes out and started to nag him, suggesting that no girl will ever stick to him if he continues his "gila bola" frenzy.

All of a sudden, the TV went off and a frustrated him sped off to the nearest McDonald's outlet in a yellow vintage Volkswagen Beetle.

(http://jalopnik.com/assets/resources/2007/09/64_Beetle_Frt_LH_Qtr_Low.jpg)

He was so into the game that he actually blocked the view of a girl sitting there alone. "Nice view", she uttered. Feeling sorry, he asked "Are you a kaki bola too?" to a quick answer of "Yeah, that's what my mom call me."

Recalling his mom's words, he asked "Would you run away if I sit next to you?"

"I won't go anywhere..."


My mom nagged me few days back for staying up until 5.00 AM watching Euro 2008. Two days back over the phone, she said "Girls won't stick to him" to one of her friends. She was actually referring to me. Damnit, I like this advert~!

Izaty was one of my classmates during primary school. It was only recently that I managed to catch up with her. I'm glad she remembered me vividly; everything from how naughty am I during primary school to my examination results. Best part is, she remembered what I frequently eat during recess hours!